The first time you're forced to whisper, “I have cancer,” it will be masked in defeat and confusion. As time passes and those three words are spoken, you'll become fearless, and your perception of life will gradually change. The reality is that there is nothing to look forward to when it comes to this match except the extreme appreciation for life. Cancer will try to steal from, humiliate and defeat you, but it can’t take away the person you are at your core. You have the capability of facing the darkness of this disease and defeating it. There will be days you feel beaten. There will be tears, weakness, and fear, but a powerful mindset can conquer those moments. Instead of allowing this illness to define you, it's time you define it.