When someone first says, "I have cancer," they may feel overwhelmed and lost. But each time those words are said, a resilient and determined spirit starts to shine through, leading to a shift in how they see the world.
The greatest battle lies within your mind. The challenges you face physically cannot compare to the strength your mind will need to overcome this diagnosis. Often, when fighting this disease, you find yourself in survival mode, unable to live a normal life, confined within the walls of a hospital, and experiencing a rollercoaster of emotions during treatments. When I speak of understanding this illness, I want you to know that you are not alone in the thoughts that consume you. You are not alone in questioning whether you will still be here next month, grappling with guilt and the feeling of burdening your loved ones or battling the desire to give up. You are not alone. Allow yourself to cry, to rest, to embrace the sudden surge of energy that makes you want to live, and to accept that it's OK not to be OK. Remember, you have control, and you are here, living on this earth, so do whatever you feel you may not be capable of doing.
Cancer may attempt to rob, shame, and overwhelm you, but it can never take away your core being. You have the power to confront the difficulties of this illness. While there may be times when you feel utterly defeated, filled with tears, vulnerability, and fear, remember that you are resilient. Each day brings a fresh start, with a sunrise that paints the sky in various colors and forms. Some mornings, you'll radiate with vibrancy, while other times, clouds may overshadow you. Embrace this journey of understanding and adapting to your circumstances, as it marks a new chapter in your life.